That’s the spirit FS!!! It really is a step-by-step gradual process, isn’t it? I feel myself getting stronger with every day that goes by. Doesn’t mean I don’t still have some pity parties but they are become less frequent and not as intense or as long. That’s progress!! The holidays, of course, are going to be a bit harder as well as the inevitable finances/custodial negotiations. I am NOT looking forward to that in any way. But I cannot avoid it either.

Your H is such an idiot! I am fully confident that he will wake up one day and realize it. By then, he will have a whole different FS to contend with. I am looking forward to reading your posts when that happens...lol. (((FS)))