Uncertain of What I Have

[SteveLW]

While I am softer on the "each sitch is different" (just read my threads and you'll see that!), I think you have to be careful. Most ICs and MCs are notorious for being trained in the "you have to court your spouse back!" The problem is that it proven to have a low percentage of success. This is why many around call MC, Divorce Counseling. Many of the anti-DB experts I consulted warned about MCing, and the effects it has on marriages. Many cases of MCs telling couples "There is no hope, you should just divorce."

It is important to make sure any IC or MC is a pro-marriage C. Stick to Christian and/or anti-D Cs.