Cadet—What I find odd about our sitch is that W talks about how she never understood how people can commit adultery. ‘If it really is that bad, there are ways out of the marriage.’
She has told me that if I cheated, she would take me to the cleaners financially and with respect to custody, and she fully expects me to do the same. And I’ve thought about that.
In my worst moments after ILYBINILWY BD back in Feb, I wondered if YS was mine. Still pretty sure he is—he has my eyes.
But I always kinda wondered with her if it is one of those Shakespearean ‘thou doth protest too much’ things when she would talk about cheating and what we would / should do to each other.
And maybe I’m overthinking it.
Me, tonight: Haircut, work-out, get something nice smelling to wear, out to eat, go to coffee shop, get grading done.
