We do both have needs and I agree they aren’t totally aligned. I also love the advice to tell him I need to be turned on.
I definitely worded that in a way that states you are willing to have sex with him, as long as he puts more effort into it.
Of course you can make that effort all kinds of things. This is where it gets fun. Again, please have fun with this. This is the man you want to be with.
The key is not to drive him away. You want him thinking about you all the time. Did you ever buy "The Art of seduction?"
We will see how things go. I will say that the detaching ang GAL really does work. It makes him curious about me. It’s almost as if it makes him more attracted to me. I can honestly say that it is fun watching him pursue me. The other day I was cooking and I found him staring at me. So I decided to do little things that made him even more intrigued. Nothing so obvious that it made me look like a fool. Just simple things like standing a certain way or dancing as I cooked. He watched me like a hawk in the sky.
I did order The Art of Seduction, it’s on the way.
I think I’ll give this a try. I’d love to see him thinking about me all the time. I think combining the GAL and this art of seduction technique may just be the best way to approach my sitch. It’s obvious we are stuck in this house together, I may as well have some fun with this. It’s also obvious that he is confused and isn’t ready to leave this marriage like he claims.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
