Getting Mixed Signals - New Thread

[Ready2Change]

Somehow you have to figure out the balance in all of this. You are the one that has to make choices and live with the consequences.


The first biggest question: Is he being unfaithful right now? Only you can figure this out.

Is he being deceptive? Again, only you can figure this out.

What are your deal breakers in your marriage?

He may be having temptations. Again, who do you want him to have sex with?

Is there room for forgiveness? Has he shown remorse?

You have needs and he has needs and they most likely are not in alignment.

How do you get them in alignment?



I still go back to seduction.

W:"H, it looks like you want to get lucky. I need to be turned on before I sleep with you. You have not done anything to turn me on. It is not as easy as getting in my bed. Please try something else next time. It is time for you to leave and me to get some sleep. goodnight."


I would love for him to stand up to you and tell you it is his house and his bedroom and you are free to leave....but I am sure he will respect your wishes....