We all struggle with this, but get more alpha. Alpha might pay attention to WW for giggles but he doesn't hope or care care if the WW is having an aha moment. Alpha doesn't reward W bad behaviors. You can never nice your way out of it. Alpha is going to keep improving himself because he controls his own world.
Yeah...even though I have stopped consciously trying to nice my way in, I still do things that are considered nice, even if it is just by coincidence that she would benefit from what I did (she eats my food that I cook, extra soda, etc.). I don't go out of my way to help her. I stopped doing that. If that I am doing is still considered cake-eating and nice, how would I go about not doing that without sounding callous and vindictive?
Originally Posted by Twofeet
Don't worry about posting what you look like to reddit, validate yourself. There are some good subs on there to learn from such as MFA, Fitness, etc. Take the advice and build from there. If you feel that you look good you will exude confidence. You will always have imperfections, it is what makes you human and unique. For lifting are you using a LP? SL, SS, Greyskull, Ice Cream, etc.
I feel great as I have said before. I feel stronger. I just have image issues, especially with what is going on right now and building my confidence again.
