What a great update! It is good to hear that you are in such a strong place that you feel comfortable moving forward with the D. You have been an inspiration to me and many others throughout this process. I know that when I first came on here, I would have considered such a result a failure, but through your wisdom and advice I learned that success is predicated on the progress you make on yourself, not on anything external. You have certainly put in the work, both in taking stock of yourself and making improvements, but also in reaching out and helping others see the path forward.
I'm glad to hear that you are readying yourself to get out there and date again. It's a whole different world from the last time we were out there, and we carry the hard-earned wisdom from this process with us. I have little doubt that you will enjoy success in the dating world. I do look forward to hearing your perspective on that process.
It's also great that you are healing and nearly ready to climb again. Between a minor illness, oral surgery, holidays, and some dating, I have struggled to keep up with my climbing routine over the past two weeks. When I finally made it back to the gym on Sunday it was such an enjoyable experience. It felt so good to be back. I'm sure it will be even sweeter for you given the length of your layoff!
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019