My Story Pt 2

[Manta]

What do you mean your WW "has lost the plot"?

In your therapy, I think you should not focus much on why she is doing anything. Neither of you know, neither of you will be able to figure it out either.

It's like a different person to the woman i loved and married.

It's not "like" a different person, it IS a different person. The LBS just doesn't want to believe it.

You're following her social media, why? Is that helping you somehow?

In an earlier post, you mention you "used" the Last Resort Technique? But you stopped for some reason?

You mention her not showing any remorse as to why you can't forgive her. Well, I've got news for you. She may never show any remorse, and if she did, it may be a long, long time. So let go of it! You can't control her, so don't worry about it! Do it for your own internal peace, or carry on the rest of your life as a victim like some divorcees and just be miserable.

I'm not following her social media, we were still friends on FB, however, i decided to remove it last weekend for good. That and also on her Whatsapp, she posted a profile pic of her and her new AP, only 3 1/2 months after DDay. Very tasteless and cruel, which she changed a few hours later again. i guess she couldn't take the heat from someone!? No idea, but i'm off it for good.

I have deleted the app and have advised my siblings to not update me on FB or anything anymore. I really don't need to know and want to protect my sanity.

I used the LRT, however since then nothing from her side. Shes off in La La land. It's hard to understand, as they only have limited access to each other, either through work events or through flying to each other's countries.

I don't ever want to be a victim and spending my life miserable, I'm going to counseling and doing the right things and keeping busy and distracting myself with my friends and hobbies. I'm back playing live music again and also have lost weight and looking pretty good again. I'm reading positive books and working on the PIES.