It really seems like my situation with my wife is hopeless.
It is never hopeless. Lots of hopeless looking situations turned out in R. The key is to be patience. Stay the course. Let the process work.
Thanks Steve, i always have hope, but i have to protect myself and i'm listening to you.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)