Great update! I am glad to read that things are going so well for you. I hope you know that it is because YOU did the hard work of letting her go, giving up control, and mostly because you focused on YOU! It's all in your attitude and hard work and not about winning back a (unhealthy) person or marriage! If your spouse isn't also willing to make positive changes in themself and recommit, then there is no M. You get it! We can all learn from you!
You and J9 are shining examples of how well DBing can work and you guys are both success stories that newbies should follow! Newbies, go back and read both of their threads from the start and you will see what I mean. This is how it's done.
M, are you going to join the chats in "Surviving The Big D?" Sometimes I peek over there and feel jealous at how much fun they are having and how active their conversations are!
Keep up the good work, buddy! Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
