Ryan, yes WASs are usually have a very rosy outlook on the D process, how easy it is, and what they can get out of it. This is why we often say that the reality sometimes will sober them up. Lot of WASs have tried to R after they or the LBS filed for D. I often say that when my WW found out I had contacted a lawyer she was stunned. I think it was because she realized that I was not going to fight the D if she were to move it forward. And that it meant she'd need a L. And that it was going to take a longtime and be drawn out.

I am never for making it easy on a WAS. Even in D. I say make it has hard on them as possible. So many LBS are worried about cost. I know all of our financial sitches are different but I was willing to spend as much as it took to make it as painful for her as possible. That was my plan. Everyone has to decide for themselves.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018