I know after having them for a full week by myself I am ready for a break when the week is over. My X and I are very flexible with each other so if either one of us want them when it is not our week there are no issues. We sit next to each other at all of our kids games, school events, etc. One of the soccer parents commented to me that if they didn't know any better they would have no idea we were Divorced. I mean we don't sit there and chat it up but I want my daughters to feel comfortable around us both when we are together. I don't want it to be awkward for them or make them feel like they have to choose sides.
I know my XW has not done the work either. She went as is from me to another man. I agree also that I am sure it is vice versa with her as well, never wanting to come back however for her sake she does have some work to do on herself and while it is no longer my concern I know she would benefit from it. If I was stronger I would have tapped out along time ago, she might run into a guy that won't put up with her shenanigans and he could tap out like I should have.
Oh well, whatever. As long as my kids are happy (and they appear to be doing great) that is all I am concerned about.
