Good to hear it Maika, I guarantee part of her is like WTH, he doesn't even care anymore! And the old saying is "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned", but I think a woman that isn't pursued by someone the woman thinks should be pursuing is even more infuriating.
Good for you on the mental and emotional clarity. I don't agree with divorce, but my morals aren't everyone else's morals and you guys have been apart so long that a formal D won't change much.
I wish you good luck getting back into dating. Are you going to be looking for something serious, casual, or just reliving your early twenties??? If it's reliving the early 20's, well, I'll expect reports on Monday mornings. The guys here can have a laugh while the women here call us immature. It could be great...
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
