Dude.....great update! Last night I was home alone (it's my week without the kids), sipping some bourbon, watching Monday Night Football in my house, in complete silence (outside of the dog) and just thought to myself how awesome and blessed I am. Sure their are aspects of it that suck but truthfully my XW was a $hitty a$$ spouse and I deserve so much better. I didn't realize it when I was in the weeds emotionally but looking back this is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I hate paying child support but it is almost worth it
