In your therapy, I think you should not focus much on why she is doing anything. Neither of you know, neither of you will be able to figure it out either.
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It's like a different person to the woman i loved and married.
It's not "like" a different person, it IS a different person. The LBS just doesn't want to believe it.
You're following her social media, why? Is that helping you somehow?
In an earlier post, you mention you "used" the Last Resort Technique? But you stopped for some reason?
You mention her not showing any remorse as to why you can't forgive her. Well, I've got news for you. She may never show any remorse, and if she did, it may be a long, long time. So let go of it! You can't control her, so don't worry about it! Do it for your own internal peace, or carry on the rest of your life as a victim like some divorcees and just be miserable.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
