Things seem to be progressing well for you, especially at the mental level. Emotional healing is always playing catch up but I think that's just how it works. Heart needs more TLC than the mind.
It looks like you're at a place where you're making decisions not out of emotion, but serious thought and contemplation. Nobody can tell anyone if they should D or start dating. There are just guidelines and everyone's different.
Do your thing and continue on your path of healing and living life to the fullest.
