It really seems like my situation with my wife is hopeless.

I'm doing my best and GAL, but i can't help but feel that my WW has lost the plot. Even my close friends and our families say the same. Nobody never ever thought she would do this. It's like a different person to the woman i loved and married.

My therapist said not to underestimate the impact of the Miscarriages on her behavior this summer. It's devastating on women, but also it's not a reason for her doing this.

I did feel that 2017 was a good year and this time last year we were so excited with my WW being pregnant. Sadly this year, it's a complete disaster. Another Miscarriage and an affair.

She's cheated, been kicked out of the house, her AP lives in another country, he's a cheater also, she wants a divorce, is now in a relationship with him and has made no effort to R, no matter what I have tried.
I have sent her a legal letter back in October, she hasn't responded.

She has lost soo many friends and respect over this, but it seems she doesn't care about anyone else besides herself and her AP.

My family and friends are a great support network and have got me through some dark days. It killed me last weekend seeing that picture of them together, with an almost evil grin on both their faces.


BH: 36 WW:33
M: 2
Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018
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1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019
LRT: Oct 2018
WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)