She asked again just now, if we could please dine together for my birthday with the kids. This is the fifth time. Do I just stand on the fukc no path? Or do I accept with no expectations and have a good Night for the kids?
I would have to go with a solid "NO" unless she has ended her affair. She doesn't get the best of both walls.
It's a boundary, right? No family time while she is engaging in an affair?
Stick to your boundaries. It's been yielding positive results so far. And you are respecting yourself by doing it.
