As long as i liked the guy, i would love it if he felt confident enough to text or call me freely without the games. It would only feel annoying if i did not like him and was trying to drop him. Now when women do this, it turns a guy off. When men do this it is flattering. A guy that does not dote a lot of attention when pursuing is not gonna seem very invested. Hes not gonna attract me as much. Hes gonna be competing with other alpha guys that are giving that attention.
I tend to stereotype. But i think women get turned on by being attractive to someone. By getting attention. Its masculine to do the pursuing. To be a bit aggressive. (Not talking stalkerish) to do what you said you would instinctively like to do is actually attractive to women.
To go tit for tat. Wait 3 days to text or what ever is transparent and not a turn on. Does not invoke chemistry. It just shows beta and weakness.
(Now what i dislike, is that many men tend to do this in the beginning and then once they get the girl, it all dies down. But thats another story. )
Joe, just be confident. Go for what you want. Just dont get attached so much to the outxome this early on.
