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The problem is you are starting see what you view as positive results and are starting to have expectations. You small talking with her not small talking with her is not going to change anything. It's about what you want to do. If you want to be friends with her then that's fine, it will be great for the kids. If you want to show her that you are a strong and confident man and you have no room in your life for someone who has blatantly disrespected you that is fine too.

I don't think you ever answered me but what if your best friend did this to you?