Yes mine is the same way. W has been coming to me about random things she knows the answers to and asking me if this or that is ok since I fully got my b@lls back...yet when she left one of her main issues was she essentially wore the pants in the relationship as I got lost in the MR.
It’s their journey that they need to go through..
Definitely right actions are key...talk is cheap.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18