Moving on to the bright side Part 11

[TBSakaJ9]

I know. I will just see how it pans out but I am optimistic.

When I am on dates I don't feel like I am following some strategy. I feel like I am myself, I try to relax, have fun, and engage her in fun topics. I try to not make the dates heavy and it certainly helps when the woman is engaging as well, actively participating.

Most of his advice that I have taken so far are his texting strategies. Trying to make sure I don't over text, blow up her phone, act desperate etc. Trying to find a balance of pursuing, showing interest but not over doing it. While also giving her the appropriate amount of time and space away from me.

I have no problems asking a girl out, and making specific plans. Picking the place and the time.

If it was me I would call her whenever I wanted, texted when I wanted and I wouldn't worry about coming across as being needy, desperate, etc. I wouldn't worry about having a life or giving her time and space etc. I would not show restraint, I would just do whatever I wanted and if it turned her off then I guess it just wasn't meant to be.

If I had fun and enjoyed the date I would just ask her out immediately. I would probably tell her immediately how awesome she is and how much fun I had and tell her I would like to see her again.

Like right now for example......I haven't spoke to her since yesterday morning and I was the one that initiated contact. It was a texting conversation that ended with me making comment about something and she didn't respond back. I think her doorbell rang. I could easily have reached out today and she could have reached out to me as well but she hasn't so I have no clue who will reach out first next. If it was me I would just drop her another note but I don't think that is wise.

Last week she swiped R on me first on BUMBLE then obviously initiated that conversation on Sunday. She initiated contact again on Tuesday, there was no contact on Wednesday, I dropped her a quick note Thursday am, and she initiated contact twice on Friday, no contact on Saturday, and then I initiated yesterday.

Strategy or no strategy I do think there is some method to the madness.





I left off she also initiated contact last Monday as well.