Is love worth the pain? Back to Basics

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Therapist says we aren’t compatible very rarely does she say you’re done but she says there is too much damage. W says she can’t be herself around and me and that she can’t be herself around her family. Or anyone she really cares about. Basically agreed it’s over and to divorce.

I still feel like if her self worth was higher we could work. On the ride home w says she saw a therapist two weeks ago. And that she is one of the most emotionally centered people therapist has seen but so much trauma and damage. Says victim of abuse in marriage. She’s not in a place to be in a relationship or give.

Also said a narcissist will never admit it or work on it. And that I’m beating the odds.

I’ve made so many mistakes. Us being together two months ago made us both move backwards in our progress. She told me she wasn’t ready. I should of listened.

Is it even worth going dark and DB and LRT. I see no hope. I wish there was more I could do. Or just agree to see mediator and D.

Feeling empty and hollow. Thanks for the support. I should have been a better listener to you guys and stronger.