I think she sounds great, quite honestly. I hate to see you stick so tightly to the misinterpretations of this coach. I am sure she is attracted to exactly who you are because you wrote that bio and those pics are you. COntinue in person and approaching this as you, and not on some sort of coaches advice that is NOT GOOD in the way you are interpreting it (not knocking the coach, but the way the advice could be interpreted).
How would JOSEPH like to handle a nice professional, pretty single mother? back in the day before there were coaches to tell you how to handle it? If you enjoyed your first date and would like another one, how does the real JOSEPH his own man want to handle that?
Sometimes I tease you for fun. I never mean to insult you. I honestly don't think you are being true to yourself and want to go by some book, and the book is being misread. And as annoying as I am, I am a decent woman, one like you might run into that you would want to date. And I know the approaches would drive me nuts. I think I would like what the real Joe feels like doing in his instincts. I think that will get you closer to your goal.
