I think that was a good response. I think you not wanting to fully communicate the impact her choices have had on you is a good one. Is she asking about it or concerned, truly concerned about you?
Your patience, your even keeled demeanor will pay dividends for you and your sitch.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.