My WAW has pulled that stunt about having certain clothes needing to come back to her place on exchange days. She puts the responsibility on S rather then communicate with me directly and it has caused him to walk on eggshells. I finally put my foot down and told her to stop with that bull$hit and let him be a normal 6 year old. It really got out of hand where she instructed S that the underwear, undershirt, and socks he had on needed to come back to her house.(WTF..)
I just firmly told W that s comes to her place in shoes, shirt, socks, pants, etc...just the same as he does to my house. Since I had that communication it nipped that behavior in its tracks.
It’s insane how self righteous WAW get in their current state...
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18