1 year in, and still surviving

[peacetoday]

Hi

So sorry for your pain- I know first hand how painful this process is especially around Christmas-

The crises is usually the reason for the MLCer is running from us- it was not you or the M- it is her crises-
so they are shut down and that is why you see no emotion or remorse
they live in denial and fantasy and they seem to run with it as long as possible till they crash-

From my experience, the kids will adjust quickly and with less pain as they see us OK and accepting our new situation.
I practiced GAL and mostly pretending around my kids-
It definitely helped for an easier transition-

AS difficult as it is to let go,
listen to U tube about letting go
Joel Olsteen, Les Brown, Inky Johnson, Tony Robbins, Joyce Meyers, Abraham Hicks-
and positive speakers also helped me keep some peace during the painful transition

hang in