Just got back from a 3 day trip to London to stay with middle son and his partner. Had a fantastic time. Laughed lots and lots and the kids indulged me with lots of tourist attractions. In fact, dare I say, had a better time than we would have done if Dad had been with us. None of us had to worry about him 'disapproving' of what we wanted to do or the fact that the kids stayed in bed past 9 am, or that we were so tired after a day sightseeing that we just ate crisps and chocolate for tea.
I've always been the more relaxed parent and I am extremely blessed to have 3 wonderful sons, who not only look out for Mum, but we also enjoy one another's company. Gave me a great confidence boost; I can go visit on my own (logistical nightmare from where we live) and have a good time and the kids enjoyed my company rather then being on edge and trying to impress like they would have done with Dad.
Definitely on a high. There is a whole world out there that doesn't revolve around my H and his wants and desires and maniac behaviour.
