S21 messaged me today asking how things were going. What's the status with dad.
I'm sick of being the one to have to tell the kids anything of importance. So, I just said "He has decided not to come home. You'll have to ask him for his reasons". I don't really know his reasons, and perhaps H doesn't really KNOW either. But, I figure it's time for him to step up to the plate in dealing with the kids. Even though they are adults, they are still affected by our separation.
He then asked "Did he say how much longer"?" I responded No, that I only know he rented for another month. And as I said, you'll have to ask him if you need to know anything else. That's all I know". I told him I know it's upsetting, and I was sorry about that.
I am really looking forward to having them home for the month. I want to shower them with love and attention, and show them how much they mean to me. 6 more days!
