I am still searching for what I did wrong, I think it was mostly for me pushing her to do something with her life, when our son started school, I kept telling her to get at least a part time job, so she can help me a little, I was not getting raises at work, we were using my credit card a lot, This grew on me and I started to become angry at times, mostly money and her lack of attention to me, I was feeling just like a wallet to her.