Sorry to hear of your sitch. Wanted to drop some support and let you know you are doing great. Btw, HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY! Stay strong man, you are making good choices in keeping some healthy space between you and your W.
Keep journaling, keep absorbing, and learning. Sounds like you've had enough of her shenanigans. Your W really likes to test things. Every chance you get, shoot that down.
You're an awesome dad! Keep doing those things with the kids.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current