Sandi's Reflections - Part 2

[Adam04]

Quick question I've been looking for a better part of an hour on sandi's response to an "Everything ok?" request from WW. I know that it's a trap question, but I want to know why. I saw her post a response, but do not know what thread it is in. I've looked through the search engines with no luck.

Can someone assist? Please?

Edit: Found it! But I would like more insight please. I get hit with that question once every three weeks or so and I always response with "Nothing. Everything is great!". Also, I know that it never ends well with I answer...truthfully. I practically hand my balls to her on a silver platter.

pain18,

you tell your W that yes, you -ARE- FINE, in fact you're having the BEST time of your life. Truthfully, if you Detach and GAL for you, why wouldn't you be having the best time? Wouldn't that be better than being miserable under the looming axe of D?

Trap question IMO means she temp checking you, if you still under her control, then yes you will be honestly saying you are miserable and she will go Thank you, I'll see you later tonight. If you are honest and show her you're having the best time of your life, you're moving on, you might be whistling dixie coming in the door, cheery attitude, swaying back and forth, tossing the keys down, maybe not even noticing her until she asks "hey hows things", then you raise your head smiling as if you were thinking about something that really took your mind off her, then you tell her, had a great day, or couldn't be better. (keep it short, keep them guessing, then keep going)