And also I have read many MLC try to come back But we LBS don't want them back. Why to much hurt.
I moved my story to MLC. I also know why is a WAW and MLC all in one.
I have forgiven W. I had to forgive W because I needed to heal. I kept going back to What if.
It was doing more damage to me. And having 3 kids I would see them picking up My vibe.
I won't lie is hard. This has been my hardest fight I ever had to. And I had a pretty mess up childhood But I also have gotten help for that.
My W has done lots of damage. From mentally To emotionally. And at the end W grip me up choke Me. So that's when monstering came out.
The only way to describe it is Like a mouse trap in a box
At first seeing W walk away was hard. But now I think that was the best thing W could have done. Kids and I where walking on eggshells. We tiptoed Around W. W always angry. And now W is still Angry.
I don't get it you would have thought I left W. W behavior is like I left her.
Doesn't make sense but maybe it won't.
Maybe your W needs to be away for your W to see. But don't put your hopes up.
Protect yourself financially if you and w have joint Credit cards please please close
Again from experience I wish I took advice seriously W racked up credit cards over 6,000 plus...
It is crazy to think we know them. They become people We don't know them.
My W became the opposite of what I am attracted too W is someone now I wouldn't even go on a date.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
