[quote=Marina7]But now I question do I want W back. Kids and I are happy.
Yes we miss her but the old W. Not this person[/marina7]

I am so glad to hear you and your kids are happy. That is the most important thing of all.

Your second part about missing the old W but not the current person rings true for me too. I very much miss the woman I fell in love with. I do not miss the silent, private, angry person who decided an A was the best escape from her problems. Unless she is able to bury that person I don't know how we could ever be back together.