Finding the Balance then Tipping the Scale (TWO)

[Adam04]

Thank you burned,

Gonna chalk it up to nothing.

I plan to keep distancing myself for a couple of reasons, one is for my sanity.

I've read several of Sandi's posts everywhere and if W pursues, the only sign I am interested in is the remorse. if there is no remorse, there is no R. I like things in black and white and this is easy for me to understand. Sandi has been so kind to also provide a whole list of actions that back up the words. Easy to see attitude match actions and words. If something is off, then not Ready.

Another things, a lot of posts about piecing and Sandi's own posts about when she was remorseful indicate minimal time of 2years +. I have a long way to go. I'm sure if my game isn't right, what would make W to come back. Why wouldn't she be second guessing herself?

We both deserve better, our family deserves better, and the kids deserve better from both their parents.

Bacon burger sounds good... I was daydreaming about a nice ribeye.