Bo,

Your get some great advice here.

About calling you by first name... I also ask myself that one.
W in 10yrs have called me M always now I am first
and last name.

Sounds weird W calling me by my whole name. But I just
don't get it.

Is hard trying to not connect with W but I know you will get through it.

Stay strong and firm always.
As long kids are taken care of your good.

Protect your finances please and kids first always.

If W starts questioning you where you going or with Who.

Keep it cool and calm and say you wanted this. This is what it is
to be single. And maybe remind her.

If am correct W you said where done we no longer together.

Your W might give you guilt trip or give you a blank look
Simply Walk away.
And always be polite to W.

Kill W with kindness always smile and chin high.

Now will you break down yes We all have we all cry and yell if
You have too. Just don't do it in front of W.

Don't let W see you.

My W finally said if you ever cared you didn't cry or say anything.
And till this day I don't show her

Remember one day at a time


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9