She may feel unworthy and that is why she wants to struggle. She may be looking for some type of validation from her parents if she struggles. She may want to prove that she can make it on her on w/o the help of her parents in any way. We really do not know what is circling around in her head. She may have this grand vision to try something different, i.e., which would mean struggling versus the silver spoon life style.

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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.