Not poor. In fact she was pretty well off. She was emotionally abandoned at age 3 by her mom though. Several abusive marriages followed. Her dad was her stable rock. She has always said how she didn't want to repeat that cycle. OM in my situation is dangerous. I have to protect my kids (through the courts) and myself. I have purchased a body camera and already own several firearms. W does not have the combo to the safe.
She has been rather hostile lately. I have been calm and cordial but am absolutely not letting her throw daggers my way or talk back to me.
