1 year in, and still surviving

[peacetoday]

Hi I don't know enough about your situation to say
but just some questions, I would ask myself


I would not want her to ruin Christmas for your kids-

Do you think she would?
has she kept up any r with the step kids?
Would it be a positive interaction on Christmas?
Are there any other motives?
Is she clean and sober or addicted?

if you think it would be a positive experience--trust your gut
if you think it would be a fiasco -be cautious-
look into your motives-