I wonder if many of them really think too much about what the future holds-
many will accept very little to be free to pursue their new life

MY XH left the state and pretty much signed everything of monetary value to me and kids-

He chose to move and Marry OW and go to her small hometown in the mw and start totally over with nothing except his car and some clothes--leaving our business to me-He was president of his business and became a store clerk in his new town-

Only time will tell will direction she may go and even though she pursues school that is no guarantee that she will land or keep a job
But I believe many MLCers follow a script especially if they were poor in childhood-
MY XH was-
they choose poor--


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow