I have merged your two threads together. Your previous thread only had 53 postings. We ask that posters to stick with one thread until they have reached the 100 posting/reply limit.

You do what you feel is best for you in the way of removing photos, mementos,

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.