My W claims that she is soooo unhappy and told me twice that she wasn’t sure she wants to be married to me. Even brought up talk of separation at some point in near future. If she’s this unhappy, then why doesn’t she....
But then again this is the same woman who claimed she needed me around for me to take paternity leave for 3.5 weeks after YS was born back in Sept. End of my first week back at work in mid-October W tells me she’s unhappy, isn’t sure she wants to be married to me, maybe we should separate for a bit and take a break.
And then today, she talked about how, in January, when YS starts going to a sitter after she is done with maternity leave, that because I go to work so early as a teacher, she will be getting both kids and herself out the door and that it will be so hard.
You don’t say.....imagine what that would be like if you left and had to do that on your own...
Exactly right about trusting / believing what they say...
Sorry to hear you’re going through this as well. It’s so sad to see what they’ve become. My H kind of looks terrible. He hasn’t shaved or cut his hair probably in a week. He looks a bit disheveled.
I’m truly finally realizing that he really has a problem and I definitely can’t beleive anything that he says.
I’m sending you hugs. I hope things get better for you!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
