Originally Posted by marina7
Living,

Woohoooo...
Wow yelp they are like bat sh&& crazy.. I mean crazy.


Please please please don't cave

W tried all this. I even thought making love after BD would spark something.

Nope.. shame on me..
Living if you can spend the night over friends or even a hotel.

H will ask. And answer him directly
We are no longer together

H will try to do 20/20 question don't tell him where you where or anything
Remember H wants to separate give him a taste of life without you.

You got this hun...


Crazy is an understatement! I love the idea about going and staying at a hotel. I don’t have any friends I could stay with but I could easily stay at a hotel.

I also like the direct answer of reminding him we are no longer together.

And just as I suspected he tried to come in my room last night. He couldn’t get in so he sends me text messages telling me how much he misses me. I just ignored all his messages.

I think I can finally see that I’m in for a long wild ride.


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together