You go girl!!! Even if nothing comes of it, who cares. Sounds like he might be friend material. I’d probably steer clear of anything more. Mostly because he seems emotional about it still. Don’t want to be a rebound. Having a friend who is going through a similar situation might be good though. It is tough for people who haven’t been there. Mostly what you hear from them is “you’re better off”... “there’s plenty of fish in the sea”... etc... I get what they are trying to do but it’s not overly helpful. I agree with you about someone’s job not being a way to measure who they are as people. There are plenty of rich jerks out there.