Getting Mixed Signals - New Thread

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Thank you everyone for the hugs and encouragement yesterday. I’m happy to say that today was a better day! I spent the day being very happy!

H sent me a text message yesterday evening telling me he appreciates me moving his things into the other room but he wishes I would have discussed it with him first. I wanted to say...oh like you discussed that you were unhappy with me first before you told a total stranger in a bar our business. But I didn’t. I just ignored his text message.

Of course he sends me a couple of text messages today. I ignore them. He asked me to respond. I ignore him.. He wanted me to know he was picking up some supplies from the hardware store. He then says he wasn’t sure if I was picking up the paint we need this weekend or another day. I responded “when I pick up the paint, I’ll let you know.”

Well I guess that was sufficient enough for him, he FaceTimes me. I answer, he starts talking asking me why I’m mad at him. Like are you freaking kidding me? I was determined not to do this with him today. I told him I was busy and needed to go.

He then sends me a text message a couple of hours later saying that he hates that things are this way and he hopes one day I will talk to him because he misses talking to me. I swear this guy is fried. Of course I didn’t respond to that message.

So tonight I treated myself to a lovely dinner, then came home and took a long bubble bath, and I’m now enjoying a glass of wine. My son slept over at a friends house. So my plan is to listen to soft music, slowly sip my wine, and enjoy my peace of mind. Oh where is he you might ask. Downstairs working on a project in our foyer.

I’ll be locking my bedroom door tonight. Don’t want him trying to slip in here. Too bad he won’t have the pleasure of enjoying all this greatness. I’m sure it’s going to be a long night for him. Oh and I made sure that I’m going to be super busy this weekend!