Setting her free is what I’m attempting via detachment.
Internally, I go back and forth when facing the fear of her leaving me. Some days I’m more okay with it than others. Continuing the mind-set will be key.
I see what you typed below, and that is good to keep in mind—but I’m going to wait until she does the R talk (per Sandi’s Rules). I get that bomb from her (if / when it happens), then I go with that.
