Of course.......they will open the doors for you and sell their first born. Everyone women is different though with what they need to get them comfortable to meet you out for a date. I have had some agree to meet same day and others that it has taken a week to get them comfortable. Finding the right time to ask is important which forces you to read the signs.
I think if G was dating someone you guys would make a good couple lol.
I don't know, LH, I workout, but I am a curvy brunette, sized 10, lately inching towards a 12. (I like beer and food) But my boobies ARE fake.
However, I did one of those facebook things to see what you would look like with different hair colors and consensus says I should totally go blonde, and I might just do that!
And as you can see, I pick on him like a sister. I mean it all in fun, J:)
smh.........you will be happy to know G that this girl is 5'10 and maybe 150 to 160 so I am stepping out. She does have fake boobs though and she is blonde
You never tell a girl what your availability is. You always put the ball in her court first so she can tell you what days she is free first. Once we coordinate the day then I will suggest the time and place.
This could just be me, but i couldnt disagree more. I always ask them out to a certain place at a certain time on a certain day. This is taking initiative and clearly lets them know your intentions. If they have an interest in you they will either make time for you, or reschedule to another day that suits them better. Anything other than these two outcomes i would consider it a no and low level of interest on their part. If your flaky with a lady, they will take that as a sign to be flaky also.
We all are different but this is what i would of done. "Hey I bet you cant wait to let loose a little after your work week in Boston, so lets meet for a cocktail at the Parliament, 2418 Allen St, Dallas, TX 75204 about 7:30 pm for a little conversation and refreshing cocktail tonight." she can say yes or she can suggest another time and day, anything else i would consider a no.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
There is no better way to guage an interest level than to ask a woman out directly. if she doesn't give you an answer, or gives you a no.... then you have your answer right there in front of you. And it's time to move on to the next.
i completely agree, fortune favors the bold.
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We all know Js type. The funny thing is my ex fits it to a tee fake boobs and all. I still kick myself for not asking for one in the D lol.
G, Did you mean AREN'T fake?
Nope, they are indeed fake. Enhanced, rather.It wasn't just to have big boobies, that was just a bonus. It wasn't breast CA, thank God, it was something else.
J- I like to hear you are changing it up, although, at 5'10, 150-160 is pretty thin. And yeah, you haven't met her and you know they are fake?
I have had girls agree to meet after 2 or 3 email exchanges, I had others that just quit responding, some initially don't want to meet but want to chat more or talk on the phone, I have asked others out and they have said they will let me know but then I never heard from them again, I have had 2 that went dark on me, then re-initiated contact and when I engaged they went back dark again.
Do you remember me saying how OLD was the land of misfit toys? (a comment I stole from someone I went out with several times a few years ago) What you have now come to experience first hand and what you describe above is EXACTLY what I'm talking about.
But it's made worse by all of this mind-reading stuff. I swear reading this discussion is why so many women write on their OLD profile how they are so sick of the games! Is this really you Joseph? Or is this some remote version of you that is somehow being concocted based on some "dating coach" and his ideas? I just think you are losing so much of you! Just be you! Be authentic. What is going to happen is going to happen. You should be gauging her interest for you by meeting her - not by how often, when and what she says while contacting you.
I also have to wonder if it's not partly the types of girls you are attracted to and why. See for me a drink in hand in every picture would be a red flag not an asset - but that's me. Yes those types are fun to play with but they are also the flaky ones that are off chasing the next shiny thing in an instant. As for not "showing your hand" - I mean dude, plans change. It happens to me all the time - I'll have a wide open week which turns into being busy several days which also includes cancelled plans. I may be busy for Friday on Monday but then that changes on Wednesday - that's life.
The girls are hitting on much of this but I know you are just going to have to figure it out for yourself. It's just not seeming like it's been a lot of fun - and I'm only a spectator!
Originally Posted by Joseph9
She does have fake boobs though and she is blonde
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I could tell they were fake by a picture she has up of her in a low cut dress and a picture of her she has on IG of her in a bikini. It was also pretty obvious in the nudie she sent me as well. JK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone has a friiggin type...I am just not going to hide it. I dated a smoking hot brunette in college for about 2 years and yes my XW is a 5'4 115 lb blonde and I was attracted to her. Although she got her "enhancement" after our D but I digress.
It is what it is....why hide your agenda? Why do think men and woman hump like G's dog at the beginning of every new relationship???? Sex, sex, and more sex. Sometimes that's all it ends up being other times you may actually enjoy the person, have similar values, interests, etc. and it works out to be something more.
