Moving on to the bright side Part 11

[rexgm]

You never tell a girl what your availability is. You always put the ball in her court first so she can tell you what days she is free first. Once we coordinate the day then I will suggest the time and place.

This could just be me, but i couldnt disagree more. I always ask them out to a certain place at a certain time on a certain day. This is taking initiative and clearly lets them know your intentions. If they have an interest in you they will either make time for you, or reschedule to another day that suits them better. Anything other than these two outcomes i would consider it a no and low level of interest on their part. If your flaky with a lady, they will take that as a sign to be flaky also.

We all are different but this is what i would of done. "Hey I bet you cant wait to let loose a little after your work week in Boston, so lets meet for a cocktail at the Parliament, 2418 Allen St, Dallas, TX 75204 about 7:30 pm for a little conversation and refreshing cocktail tonight." she can say yes or she can suggest another time and day, anything else i would consider a no.

There is no better way to guage an interest level than to ask a woman out directly. if she doesn't give you an answer, or gives you a no.... then you have your answer right there in front of you. And it's time to move on to the next.

i completely agree, fortune favors the bold.