Newbie who is a mess

[Sansa]

Ovrrnbw... if it makes you feel any better, my therapist said if you don’t stick it out and try everything possible to save you’re marriage it will always bother you, haunt you, in a sense. I dreaded going to MCing but I’m so glad I did because I am realizing my H has issues and communicating his feelings in general. It has been a big eye opener and a good self esteem boost because I felt like everything was my fault because I got depressed last year. When he dropped the db, he blamed me for many things and now low and behold he is seeing and hopefully realizing his was of communicating his feelings to me was non existent. It rarely is one persons fault for the breakdown of a relationship. I hope if you can hang on,you will see progress. I know my sitch took a long time to get this difficult, I am praying for patience.