The only thing I am trying to do is gauge their interest level. I have had girls agree to meet after 2 or 3 email exchanges, I had others that just quit responding, some initially don't want to meet but want to chat more or talk on the phone, I have asked others out and they have said they will let me know but then I never heard from them again, I have had 2 that went dark on me, then re-initiated contact and when I engaged they went back dark again. Others were the conversation flowed perfectly and when I asked the date was easy to make. I have never had a girl ask me out and I do understand it is my responsibility. Honestly everyone is different and you have no idea what your going to get.
I have 2 daughters so treating a women with respect is a non-issue.
My tests aren't tests of worthiness it is more about me figuring out if they are the right person for me. I think sometimes men forget they have a choice and a say in things as well. It is not all about the woman trying to figure out if I am a good match for her...a man should be doing the same and not just accepting her because he may not have as many options. Remember G you are the one getting 52 matches a day on Bumble
I don't want them to do all the pursuing......that is a turn-off but I do expect some. Again you see the entire spectrum from women who do nothing (no texting or calling) to women who go after what they want. I don't expect a women to do everything 100% but initiating contact here and there is appreciated. I had a girl 2 months ago that never initiated any contact with me. I eventually stopped contacting her and she never reached out to me so either she was not that interested to begin with or she has plenty of men and could afford to lose me. Either way if she was she would have reached back out.
